tricks to tempt and tantalize her � 45 There comes a stage when your woman looks out of it. She’s away in her head somewhere. This can be disconcerting. But don’t, whatever you do, try to recapture her attention. When she looks like this, it is because she is so focused on the pleasure you are giving her that she has literally entered a different brain state. Far from being distracted, she is paying you the ultimate compliment. She can only get to such a peak of orgasmic balance when she feels incredibly safe and incredibly stimulated. And it is YOU who is doing the stimulating. So feel good—for yourself, too. 46 � tricks to tempt and tantalize her Women, being the fascinating and varied creatures that they are, are not always in exactly the same mood every time when it comes to sex. Like men, they are subject to the same health problems, stresses, and fatigues. Unlike men, they are also subject to their monthly hormonal cycles. This means that there are particular days in each menstrual cycle when she feels much sexier than others. The sexier days tend to be in: The five to ten days following her period. The middle of the month for a couple of days only, The day (or couple of days) immediately before her period. This is often a dynamite time for lovemaking. Make a mental note (or even a written one) of your partner’s menstrual cycle for a couple of months to gain a good idea of her sexual timing. Studies of men and women affected by SAD (seasonal affective disorder) reveal that there are two peaks for depression brought on by the time of year. Depressive peaks are in winter and (more surprisingly) summer. This means that if you want to go for the optimal times for amazing sex, you should make the most of spring and autumn. 48 � tricks to tempt and tantalize her And all the rest of your fingers, too. Here’s how you perform the Symphony of the Roving Finger and Stretch your hand across and lightly rub and stroke the insides of her thighs. Bring your hands toward her genitals each time and brush them lightly before going back to the Brush with your whole hand up across her labia toward the pubic mound. Do not be rough. Make these moves slowly. Let one of your fingers (or thumb) “accidentally” glance inside the labia so that it skims the entrance to the vagina and brushes inside the pubic area, bumping against the clitoris on the way up. Repeat several times. tricks to tempt and tantalize her � 51 Your woman’s G-spot (if she has one—not every woman does) will be on the upper wall of the vagina, probably a long way back. It helps if you possess long musicians’ fingers! The latest theory is that the G-spot is the clitoral root, the very base of the clitoris. Whatever! It feels like a small swelling. To obtain sensual feeling, press down on the G-spot with the pads of the finger(s), occasionally lightening then strengthening the pressure. The G-spot responds better to
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